
A while ago I blogged about how the Back to School season makes me want to start fresh. Writing a daily blog about home design makes you feel the same way: every other month I want a new look. But here’s the problem — and it’s a problem I think anyone immersed in the world of how people decorate their homes has: it’s overload. We’re taking so much information in, we don’t leave room for what’s already in us to begin with: we start to lose our own sense of personal style. Wall decals, deer, owls, Steelcase tanker desks, the Eames rocker, turquoise furniture, cowhide rugs… How many of you have fallen victim without asking yourselves, “Do I really like this? Or am I just supposed to like it?”
How do we hit the reset button and find inspiration inward? Here are three tips.

Old photos. Dig through your personal archives. Do you have photos of your room as a teenager? Your dorm? Think about a time when you didn’t care what others thought about your living space and find a picture of your living space from that time. (If you can’t find a picture, spend some time visualizing the space from memory.) What still inspires you? What design rules are you breaking? Think back to that time: what did you like most about your space?
(Glynnis Ritchie’s amazing Flickr photo set The Bedroom Project is a great source for inspiration. The set features teenagers in their bedrooms and each photo contains a mini-interview asking the dwellers what they like best about their space.)

Clear Your Design Cache. A month ago I counted the number of design blogs I subscribed to: 147. Then I tried a little exercise. I took out a pen and paper and wrote down, from memory, the design blogs I like to read. There were about 30. So I did something bold: I unsubscribed to every single one of the design blogs I hadn’t listed on paper. I had to do it! I was on such deep design blog burnout I could hardly churn out new content for BackGarage. But you know what? It was liberating. I realized the people who really inspired me also have their own sense of style, don’t fall victim to trends, and write with a passionate personal voice that, while focused mainly on design, occasionally deviates from it to talk about family, or work, or personal problems.
Of course if you clear your design cache (which might be blogs, might be magazines, might be your Flickr groups or favorite Etsy sellers) you might not find the same thing I found. Maybe you’ll find you just like blogs that do product roundups, or focus only on mid century, or renovation, or on funny things found while thrifting. But I guarantee if you pare down by making hand written list of only those favorites you can write from memory, you’ll find your personal style reflected in the choices that remain.
And don’t worry — you can add more later!

Free associate on Flickr. Now that you’ve cleared up some mental space by clearing out your available palate of design inspiration, try seeing where your mind will lead you. Visit Flickr and let your subconscious do the typing. What kind of spaces do you want to look at? Don’t censor yourself. If you thought, “farmhouse kitchen,” go with it. If you did, “retro beach house,” go with it. If you want an “Ernest Hemingway writing room,” or a “punk bed,” or “Paris balcony,” I tell you — ask the oracle! She will provide it.
As you search and find results you like, drag them to your desktop or favorite them. Save them for your virtual scrapbook. But keep feeding more words in — without thinking about it — until you have 20 or 30 photos to work with.
Then take a step back and admire your work. What have you created?
As for myself, I pulled the photos you see in this post, plus many more photos of sparse German apartments, messy bedrooms, mattresses on floors, early 1980s and late 1970s squatter houses, John and Yoko love-in beds, and empty lofts.
Does this mean I’m going to re-do my space to fit these images? Not really. But at least I know what interests me without having it fed to me.




So what images do YOU come up with? Feel free to put your favorite links in the comments.
How do YOU detox from design overload and rediscover your style? Leave your tips in the comments.